Morning epiphany: Romantic love is really about service....and loving that person how they want to be loved, not how you want to love them. In other words, I wouldn't start cooking a meal without first finding out what my dinner guests wanted to eat. It might be a wasted meal, otherwise. Hence, the question to our partners should often be: "How can I be of service to you, my love?"
The person who is honest and true will respond in kind and return your love because you were thoughtful enough to ask them what they needed. Most relationships fail because of this vital attention to detail. Be of service in your relationships and not just when it is convenient.
Treat her like a Queen.
Treat him like a King.
This is all.